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were accepting of all perspectives and methods of dealing with situations and providing growth opportunities. I’m heartbroken because I really loved this field when I got into it. While I will value the relationships and experiences I have developed, it hurts to know that I never really fit,” Jordan explains. He says he had some doubts about his choice of a career in housing, even during graduate school, and attributes much of his questioning to both work style and fit: “As my career unfolded, I realized the things I’m good at and value are not valued in housing at a high level. Because my methods of supervision are unconventional for this field and there is no scoreboard to prove they are more or less effective, I have struggled at times with supervisors who either

don’t agree with or don’t understand them.” He will be graduating with a Master of Business Administration (MBA) in November and explains that his impending graduation was the specific trigger to leaving the field: “Through my MBA experience, I realized the issues and methods that people in residence life describe as politics really are just personal relationship issues.” He believes he can use either his MBA or master’s in higher education while working in residence life, but was unable to see a way he could use both. Changing careers is certainly not unique to those in campus housing or student affairs, and it is a difficult decision for anyone. Donahoe assumed that she would live in a residence hall much longer into her

career and that the trajectory of her career would be a more traditional residence life path: “My life changed, and the benefits of living in have not been strong enough to keep me interested in this lifestyle. I assumed I would always want to be a ‘college kid’; however, I have grown up and would love the adult life.” ts
Stacy Oliver
is the associate director of residence life at Lake Forest College in Illinois. is a residence director at DePaul University in Chicago, Illinois. Email: wmattera@ depaul.edu.

Bill Mattera

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Table of Contents for the Digital Edition of Talking Stick - November/December 2011

Talking Stick - November/December 2011
Contents
Online Now
Vision
Just In
Your ACUHO-I
Transitions
Res Life: Come On In
Calendar
Special Focus: Map a Path
Regroup: Certain In Its Uncertainty
Training Day
The Transformation
Conversations
First Takes
First Takes
Reporting Out
Reporting Out
Welcome
Welcome
Snapshot
Snapshot
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Intro
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - BB1
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - BB2
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Talking Stick - November/December 2011
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Cover2
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 1
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 2
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Contents
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Online Now
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 5
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Vision
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 7
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Just In
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 9
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 10
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 11
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 12
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Your ACUHO-I
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 14
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Transitions
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 16
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 17
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Calendar
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 19
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 20
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Special Focus: Map a Path
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 22
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 23
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Regroup: Certain In Its Uncertainty
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 25
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 26
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 27
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Training Day
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 29
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 30
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 31
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 32
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 33
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 34
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 35
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - The Transformation
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Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 41
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 42
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - 43
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Conversations
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Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - First Takes
Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Reporting Out
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Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Welcome
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Talking Stick - November/December 2011 - Snapshot
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